Culliver signs on for LGBTQ education

By PHIL BARBER

I got a press release last last night from Creative Edge Public Relations, announcing that Chris Culliver has reached out to the Trevor Project, an organization that offers crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning) young people.

Not to beat a dead horse, but it wouldn’t seem fair to broadcast Culliver’s hateful comments and subsequent scandal without mentioning what seems to be a good-faith follow-up.

Is this a public-relations move by Culliver? Clearly. Was it suggested by his agent, or by the 49ers? Probably. Still, he’s making some effort to follow up on a promise, and that’s a good thing.

Here is the press release, in it’s entirety:

SAN FRANCISCO, Feb. 2, 2013 /PRNewswire/ – Chris Culliver, cornerback for the San Francisco 49ers, recently made hurtful, hateful, homophobic comments about gay athletes playing in the NFL. Chris immediately issued both a written and publicly communicated apology for his remarks; however, Chris recognizes these apologies neither excuse his statements nor sufficiently convey Chris’ remorse for the situation he created, and the people he offended. Regardless of what has been and what undoubtedly will be said about Culliver’s comments and his subsequent mea culpa, the simple fact remains: action expresses priorities. It is with this concept in mind that Chris has unilaterally reached out to The Trevor Project to seek guidance and education about the LGBTQ community through The Trevor Project’s renowned Trevor Lifeguard Workshop LGBTQ Training Program.

Rather than attempt to downplay the severity of the issue at hand, or shy from the situation in the interests of mitigating damage to his reputation, Chris intends to embrace this ordeal as an opportunity to learn and grow as a person. The Trevor Project is the nation’s leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people, ages 13-24. The Trevor Project, however, is not only a resource for LGBTQ youth in crisis, but also for the adults who care about the LGBTQ community. Surprisingly, Chris has gay family members and close friends for whom he cares deeply. Chris’s cousin, Andrew Brown is one of the celebrated directors of Word Is Out, the first feature-length documentary about lesbian and gay identity made by gay filmmakers; an iconic film for the emerging gay rights movement in the 1970s. Brown has come forward in support of Chris and his efforts to educate himself about the true impact of his commentary.

The Trevor Project offers age-appropriate education programs to help people of all ages learn more about the unique challenges faced by youth who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender, and those who question their sexual orientation, gender identity. Lauren McGinnis, Communications Director for The Trevor Project, expressed the following sentiment: “We really feel that education about LGBT youth and the challenges they face is a great way to get [Chris] started on the right path, especially since he’s a role model and there are kids all over the country with his poster on their wall, his jersey - his fans that take his words and actions to heart.” The Trevor Project in no way condones, accepts, or attempts to validate Chris’ comments; however, The Trevor Project looks forward to working to help Chris become a better role model for his fans and the general public. Both Chris and The Trevor Project recognize it will be a long road to genuine understanding, but both are eager to use this experience as an opportunity to take steps towards eradicating this type of ignorance in the NFL and in society as a whole.

In Chris’ own words, “As an African American male, I should know better. Hate and discrimination have a lasting effect, and words matter. I also have a responsibility to myself, and especially to my young fans to be a better role model. The kids who look up to me and other athletes are the future of our country, and our future deserves better than fear, hate and discrimination… I was wrong, and I want to learn how to make it right. That’s why I reached out to an organization called The Trevor Project… No child should ever feel like they are less than anyone else, and God has put me through this storm so I can learn from my mistakes and help make sure no child has to feel that way, again.”

In the weeks immediately following Super Bowl XLVII, Chris will be working with The Trevor Project staff and volunteers to learn about the risks that LGBTQ youth face and how Chris can do his part to reduce those risks. The Trevor Project has partnered with other notable athletes and celebrities, such as Shaquille O’Neil, Lady Gaga, Daniel Radcliffe, and Queen Latifa, among others, to help disseminate tolerance and understanding for the LGBTQ community. The Trevor Project is thus the perfect organization to educate Chris about how to use his celebrity status to empower youth to know that they have value and deserve a chance to live and be who they dream to be, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Chris, like the rest of the resilient 49ers, believes the true content of one’s character is revealed in times of adversity. As such, Chris is determined not to hide from this crisis, but rather to take the actions necessary to make it right.

This entry was posted in Inside the 49ers. Bookmark the permalink.

14 Responses to Culliver signs on for LGBTQ education

  1. StevenG says:

    This is how you “take responsibility for my actions.” We’ll done Cully.

  2. Alan says:

    Such a relief to know the thought police are protecting us all. Now the next time an athlete says female reporters dont belong in the showers, he should also be punished for hate speech. Chris culliver really was full of hate, right? But he loves the gay people in his family? Got it? He has both hate and love for gays.

  3. Brotha Tuna says:

    Whether Chris initiated this on his own or not, what could possibly be the down side? I think most prejudice is based on a lack of understanding and familiarity, so education seems like a sensible approach. We can make the world a better place by working on ourselves.

  4. Razoreater says:

    Alan Colms ripped Culliver on his radio show. Talk about your over the top reaction to an inappropriate comment. I’m sure he has never miss spoke.

  5. Dee Phiant says:

    If you see him speak the comments, it is NOT that offensive as when you read the comments. This is a young, likeable kid who was baited by an experienced buffoon.
    I think ALL of the media should take a MANDATORY course in ethics!!!

    • Rusty_in_OC says:

      “I think ALL of the media should take a MANDATORY course in ethics!!!”
      I fully agree, Dee. They can get in line right behind the lawyers, bankers, congressmen…

  6. drsgrosse says:

    Everybody who has come down on Chris Culliver needs to take a course in the First Amendment.

    • Neal says:

      So its ok to be prejudice dumb ass.

    • jpn001 says:

      I have taken such a course – Constitutional Law in my 3rd year of law school – and I can assure you that the First Amendment does not apply to this situation as it is neither a government agency nor a government actor attempting to regulate the content of Mr. Culliver’s speech. Individuals have no First Amendment protections vis-a-vis other private individuals and/or private enterprise.

    • Brotha Tuna says:

      grosse
      What he said isn’t illegal, and he hasn’t been arrested. He said what he said and others have said what they think of what he said. So please explain to me whose 1st Amendment Rights are being infringed……..?
      If he said he didn’t want any Red-Headed teammates would that be OK? No Jewish teammates; that OK? No Asian teammates? No Republican teammates? No Budhists?
      The interviewer was a d—, no doubt. What Cully should’ve said is probably “Next question”, but we’ve all had moments we wish could be do-overs. He f—-d-up. He’s paying the price. His teammates still love him, but when you kick over the milk pail you’re going to hear about it.

  7. Grumpy Guy says:

    In California, your boss can can you at any time for any reason. And saying something stupid that annoys some of the paying customers is certainly included.

    Culliver needs to let his apology stand, shut up and get back to football, thankful that the organization did not handle him more roughly.

    And, NO, the First Amendment does not mean sheet here. This ain’t about the government. Your boss does not have to give two farts about the First Amendment.

  8. TIM says:

    1- No Gay player has ever come out while they were still playing,so apparently they ALL agree with everything Culliver said.
    Cullivers remarks were very childish and crude but the question was crude and childish too. He should have ignored the jerk who asked it when he heard the first question the guy asked him,”how many white women are you going vo have sex with this week” !
    But in reality sexualy orientation has always banned certain orientations from the locker/shower rooms . If you are a man you can’t shower in the womens locker room and the same in reverse and saying a gay man shouldn’t be showering with heterosexual men could even be seen as equality for Gays,since they are being treated the same as everyone else ,as far as others being uncomfortable showering with them.

    Culliver never said that gays should be hurt or discriminated against in any way,just that they probably should come out until they retire. If that is discrimination then it is very similar to the discrimination we all believe in when it comes to men in our daughters locker rooms.

  9. TIM says:

    …To be clear…Culliver never said that Gays should not have all the rights of every other citizen of the Country. He never even said they should not be allowed to marry etc etc etc.
    He has Gay realatives that have never had a problem with him.
    He only said that it was inapporpriate for them to be in the NFL(mens) locker room/showers where it would cause discomfort in some of their team mates and it would be better all around,for them and for the team if they came out AFTER they retire.
    He never said he hates gays ,etc.
    Stupid to comment,yes, childish way he said it,yes .